All my friends are on Lovoo. What is that?

Lovoo is a dating app.
A dating app is an app for meeting people and flirting.
You can meet other people via your smartphone.
You see a photo of the person and you can write to them.
There are many different dating apps.

You can find lots of friends on Lovoo.
Or you can start a relationship.
You can register on Lovoo free of charge.
But you must be 17 years old.
Attention: Some services on Lovoo cost money.

Some people use dating apps for other reasons.
They may want to trick you.
Or they may (only) want to have sex with you.
Sometimes they may also lie about their age.

If you want to meet up with someone:
Meet them in a place where there are other people.
Say what you want and what you don’t want.
Get help if anything is not ok.

I am 15 years old. I was pregnant and I terminated the pregnancy. The others at school say that I am a murderer, that I killed my child.

You didn’t want a child yet.
You decided to have an abortion.
That is your right.
An abortion is not murder.
In Germany there are rules about when you can get an abortion.
When is it permitted?
When is it not permitted?

Others may not understand you.
They may want to know why you did it.

You can say to them:
I don’t like what you’re saying.
What you’re saying is hurtful.

You can also explain why you did it.
Then they might understand you.

But you do not have to explain.

Anigu waxaan ahay gabar 16-sanno-jir ah waxaana sameeyay galmo mana ihi bikrad. Qoyskayga midaan waxaa looga tixgeliyaa ku xad gudub sharafeed. Waxaan ka cabsanayaa qoyskayga in ay midaasi oggaadan. Maxaan sameeyaa?

Midaan waa in ay tahay xaalad adiga murug kuu leh.
Sidaas darteeda waa muhiim in aad fahantid in
sharaftu ay leedahay macno kala duwan hadba dhaqanka qofka ayay ku xirantahay.

Dalka Jarmalka, qofka waxaa loogu tixgelinayaa in uu yahay qof aanan sharaf lahayn
haddii aanan ixtiraamin sharciyada iyo xeerarka dalka u yaala
ama haddii ay garaacaan ama kufsadaan haweenay ama carruur.
Waa sharaf in la caawiyo qof caawimaad iyo ilaalin u baahan.

Dhaqamada qaarkooda dadku waxay u fahmaan sharaftu si kale.
Mararka qaar sharaftu macnaheedu waxay tahay in gabadhu ay ahaato mid bikrad ah illaa ay ka guursato.
Ama in gabdhaha iyo wiilasha ay guursadaan qof ay qoysaskooda u doortaan.
Laakiin go’aanadaan waa in aad adiga kaligaaga qaadatid.
Waa adiga xaqaaqa shakhsiyeed!
Qofna looma oggola in uu ku xad gudbo xuquuqahaaga.

Waxaad heli kartaa caawimaad haddii qoyskaaga uu sida kale u fikiro oona cadaadis ku geliyo.
Ma ahan mid wanaagsan in waalidkaaga cadaadis kugu geliyo ama kugu saaro bikronimadaada darteeda.
Waxaad caawimaad ka heli kartaa tooska boggagaan internetka ah:

http://www.scheherazade-hilft.de/

http://www.imma.de/einrichtungen/fachstelle-zwangsheirat/kontakt.html

https://profamilia.sextra.de/pages/sextra/beratung/onlineberatung/fragen/

http://www.fpz-berlin.de/

ኣነ (ጓል 16 ዓመት) ቅድሚ ሕጂ ስጋዊ ርክብ ስለ ዝገበርኩ ድንግልናይ ኣፍሪሰዮ። ኣብ ስድራቤተይ እዚ ከም ክብረትካ ምቕንጣጥ እዩ ዝቑጸር። ስለዚ ስደራይ ብዛዕባ እዚ ጉዳይ ከይፈልጡ ብጣዕሚ እየ ዝፈርህ። እንታይ ተገበርኩ ይሓይሽ፧

እዚ ጉዳይ ንዓኺ ከቢድ ከይኮነ ኣይተርፍን እዩ።
ስለዚ እዚ ዝስዕብ ክትፈልጢ ኣገዳሲ እዩ፡
ክብረት ሰብ ኣብ ዝተፈላለዩ ባህልታት ዝተፈላለየ መዕቀኒ ኣለዎ።

ኣብ ጀርመን ንኣብነት ክብረት ዘቐንስ ነገር:
ሕጊ ወይ ስርዓት ዘይተኽብር ምስ ትኸውን
ህጻናት ወይ ደቀንስትዮ ዝወቅዕን ዝጋሰስን
ክብረት ምህላው ማለት ድማ፡ ንዝተሸገረ ሰብ ምሕጋዝን ምትሕብባርን እውን ማለት እዩ።

ኣብ ካልእ ባህልታት ድማ ክብረት ብኻልእ መዳይ ይትመን:
ኣብ ገሊኡ ባህሊ ክብረት ማለት፡ ጓል ክሳብ ሓዳር ትገብር ብድንግላ ክትጸንሕ ከላ እዩ።
ወይ ድማ ጓል ኮነ ወዲ ተባዕታይ ስድራቤታ ዘምጽኡላ ወይ ዘምጽኡሉ ሰብ ክምርዖ ከሎ ማለት እዩ።
እዚ ውሳኔታት ባዕልኺ ክትውስንዮ ኣለኪ።
ናይ ውልቅኺ መሰል እዩ እዚ!
ዋላሓደ ሰብ መሰልኪ ክግህዘኪ ኣይክእልን እዩ።

ስድራቤትኪ ካልእ ርእይቶ እንተለዎም ወይ ጸቕጢ ዝገብሩልኪ እንተ ኮይኖም ሓገዝ ክትረኽቢ ትኽእሊ ኢኺ።
ብሰንኪ ምፍራስ ድንግልናኺ ስድራቤትኪ ጸቕጢ ክገብሩ ግቡእ ኣይኮነን ኣብዚ ሃገር።
ሓገዝ ትረኽብሉ ኣድራሻ:

http://www.scheherazade-hilft.de/

http://www.imma.de/einrichtungen/fachstelle-zwangsheirat/kontakt.html

https://profamilia.sextra.de/pages/sextra/beratung/onlineberatung/fragen/

http://www.fpz-berlin.de/

Ich (Mädchen, 16 Jahre alt) hatte schon mal Sex und bin nicht mehr Jungfrau. In meiner Familie bedeutet das Verletzung der Ehre. Ich habe Angst davor, wenn meine Familie das erfährt. Was kann ich tun?

Das ist für dich sicher sehr belastend.
Deshalb ist es wichtig, dass du weißt:
Ehre hat in verschiedenen Kulturen unterschiedliche Bedeutungen.

In Deutschland ist eine Person dann zum Beispiel ehrlos:
Wenn sie keinen Respekt vor Gesetzen oder Regeln hat.
Wenn sie Kinder und Frauen schlägt oder vergewaltigt.
Ehre kann auch sein: Jemandem helfen, wenn er Hilfe und Schutz braucht.

In einigen Kulturen verstehen Menschen die Ehre anders:
Manchmal bedeutet Ehre, dass Mädchen bis zur Heirat Jungfrau bleiben.
Oder dass Mädchen und Jungen eine Person heiraten, die die Familie ausgesucht hat.
Diese Entscheidungen darfst du aber alleine treffen.
Das ist dein persönliches Recht!
Niemand darf deine Rechte verletzen.

Wenn deine Familie anders denkt und dich unter Druck setzt, kannst du dir Hilfe holen.
Es ist nicht in Ordnung, wenn deine Familie dich wegen Jungfräulichkeit unter Druck setzt.
Hier findest du Hilfe:

http://www.scheherazade-hilft.de/

http://www.imma.de/einrichtungen/fachstelle-zwangsheirat/kontakt.html

https://profamilia.sextra.de/pages/sextra/beratung/onlineberatung/fragen/

http://www.fpz-berlin.de/

Anigu waxaan ahay wiil 13-sanno-jir ah inta lagu guda jiray safarkii aan usoo socday waddankan waxaan la safray labbo nin. Waxay igu sameeyeen waxyaabo la yaq-yaqsado. Anigu hadda miyaan ahay khaniis?

Khaniisnimadu waa qof jacayl qofkale oo noociisa ah.

Wiil jacayl wiil kale.
Ama gabar jacayl gabar kale.
Dadkaan waxay samayn karaan galmo haddii ay sidaasi doonayaan.
Khaniisnimadu sidoo kale waxaa lagu magacaabaa khaniis haddii ay tahay mid ka dhaxaysa wiilasha dhexdooda khaniisad haddii ay tahay mid ka dhaxaysa gabdhaha dhexdooda.

Adigu ma doonaysid in aad samaysid waxyaabahaan.
Midaan waxaa lagu magacaabaa xad gudub galmo.
Midaan waa mid mamnuuc ah. Dadka waawayn ee ku xad gudba carruurta waxaa loo ciqaabi karaa si aad u daran.

Akhri sheekadan gaaban.
Waxaad fuushay geed kadibna waxaad ku fadhiisatay laanta geedka.
Si kedis ah nin ayaa soo fuulay geedkii kadibna kaa riday laantii aad ku fadhiday.
Dhaawac ayaa ku gaaray waadna xanuunsatay.
Ma ahan adiga khaladkaaga in aad soo dhacday.
Balse waa ninka kusoo riday.
Haddana markale ayaad fuushay geedkii. Meeshii cidna ma saarna.
Kama soo dhicin laanta geedka.
Waad ku fadhin kartaa laantaasi ama waxaad fuuli kartaa laan kale.
Macnaheedu ma ahan in halmar lagu soo riday, in aad markasta kasoo dhacaysid geedka.

Midaana macnaheedu wuxuu yahay in xad gudubka galmo ee uu nin kugu sameeyo aadan kaa dhigaynin in aad noqotid khaniis.
Adiga ayaa nafsadaada u oggaan doona hadhow dambe haddii aad tahay khaniis ama haddii aadan ahaynba.
Waxaad oggaan doontaa marka aad qof jeclaatid.

I am a 13-year-old boy and during my journey to this country I travelled with two men. They did disgusting and painful things to me. Am I now a homosexual?

A homosexual is someone who loves someone of their own sex.

A boy who loves another boy.
Or a girl who loves another girl.
These people can have sex together if they want to.
Homosexuals are also called gay if they’re boys or lesbian if they’re girls.

You didn’t want to do those things.
This is called sexual abuse.
This is prohibited. Adults who abuse children can be severely punished.

Read this little story.
You climb a tree and sit on a branch.
Suddenly a man climbs up and pushes you off the branch.
You injure yourself and it hurts.
It’s not your fault that you fell off.
The man pushed you.
You climb the tree again. There is nobody there.
You don’t fall from the branch.
You can stay sitting on that branch or climb onto another branch.
Just because you were pushed once, that does not mean you will always fall off the tree.

This means that sexual abuse by a man does not make you gay.
You will find out yourself later if you are gay or not.
You will know when you fall in love with someone.

ኤች.ኣይ.ቪ ከም ዘለኒ ብኸመይ ክፈልጥ ይኽእል፧

እቲ ኤች.ኣይ.ቪ ቫይረስ ዘለዎ ሰብ ብደገ ክትፈልጦ ኣይከኣልን እዩ።
ናይ ኤች.ኣይ.ቪ መርመራ ምስ ትገብሪ ጥራይ ኢኺ ክትፈልጢ ትኽእሊ:
ኤች.ኣይ.ቪ ኣብ ኣካላትኪ ኣሎ ድዩ የለን፧

ኣብ ሚኒስትሪ ጥዕና ኬድኪ ናይ ኤች.ኣይ.ቪ መርመራ ክትገብሪ ትኽእሊ ኢኺ።
እቲ ናይ ኤች.ኣይ.ቪ መርመራ ብምስጢርን ብነጻን እዩ።
ዝኽፈል ገንዘብ የብሉን።
ሽም ምንጋር ውን ኣየድልን እዩ።
ሓደ ሓኪም ወይ ሓንቲ ሓኪም ደም ይወስድልኪ።
ኣብ ደምኪ እቲ ቫይረስ እንተሎ ይምርምርዎ።

ኤች.ኣይ.ቪ ቫይረስ ኣብ ደምኪ እንተ ዘይተረኺቡ፡ ጸገም የለን ማለት እዩ።
ኤች.ኣይ.ቪ ኣብ ደምኪ እንተ ተረኺቡ ከኣ መድሃኒት ይወሃበኪ።
ኣገዳሲ ነገር:
ኤች.ኣይ.ቪ ቫይረስ ወይ ኤይድስ እንተ ኣለኪ፡ ምስ ካልእ ሰብ ብዘይ ኮንዶም ስጋዊ ርክብ ክትገብሪ ኣይግባእን እዩ።
ምኽንያቱ ንኻልእ ሰብ ከተልግብሉ ትኽእሊ ኢኺ።

Text: AWO-Zentrum für Aidsarbeit Schwaben
www.zas-schwaben.de

Je ne veux pas être infecté(e) par le virus VIH. Qu’est-ce que je peux faire ? Comment est-ce que je peux me protéger ?

Tu ne peux pas attraper le VIH avec des relations sexuelles si tu utilises le préservatif correctement.
Tu peux acheter des préservatifs à plusieurs endroits :
au supermarché, à la station-service ou en parapharmacie.

Important : les préservatifs ne doivent pas être exposés au soleil.
Les préservatifs ne doivent pas être trop vieux.
Les préservatifs ne doivent pas être abimés.

Tu peux utiliser des préservatifs si tu veux avoir des relations sexuelles avec une fille ou avec un garçon.
Tu enfiles le préservatif sur le pénis.
Le préservatif est une bonne protection.

J’ai des questions sur le VIH et sur le sida. Avec qui est-ce que je peux en parler ?
Si tu as des questions sur le virus VIH et le sida, tu peux obtenir de l’aide auprès des CENTRES D’INFORMATION ET DE DÉPISTAGE VIH-SIDA ou des CENTRES DE CONSULTATION SIDA.
Ils sont dans de nombreuses villes.
Tu n’as rien à payer et ils ne parlent pas de tes questions avec d’autres personnes.

Text: AWO-Zentrum für Aidsarbeit Schwaben
www.zas-schwaben.de

Anigu waxaan ahay gabar 17-sanno-jir ah. Dhakhtarkayga ayaa i weydiiyay in la i guday iyo inkale. Maxaa laga wadaa midaasi?

“Jarrid” (ama “gudniinka dumarka”) waa marka qayb kamid ah xubinka taranka la gooyo.
Xubinka taranka waa magaca xubnaha kore ee taranka dumarka.
Waxaa dhici karta in lagaa gooyo ama gudo markii aad ilmo yar ahayd.
Waxaa dhici karta in aadan xusuusnayn wax walba oo arintaasi kusaabsan.

Waxaa jira qaabab baddan oo “gudniinka”.
Mararka qaar qayb aad u yar ayaa la gooyaa.
Sida “kintirka”.
Midkaana wuxuu ku yaala dusha sare ee xubinka taranka.
Ama “faruurta”.
Kuwaana waa qaybaha maqaarka ku wareegsan xubinka taranka.

Mararka qaar xubinka taranka waa la daboolaa.
Ayada oo la isku xirayo bishimaha gudaha ama kuwa banaanka ah.
Loogana tago duleel yar oo dhiiga iyo kaadida kasoo baxdo.

Midaan waxay noqon kartaa mid caadi kuu ah. Waxaa dhici karta in aadan fahmin su’aasha dhakhtarka.
Dumarka badankooda ee ku nool dalka Jarmalka ma ahan kuwo “la gudo”.
Waana sababtaas uu dhakhtarka kuu waydiiyay su’aashan.
Dalka Jarmalka, “gudniinku” waa mid ka mamnuuc ah oona sharciga ku ciqaabo.
Midaasna macnaheedu waxay tahay in dadka waawayn ee guda gabdhaha ay samaynayaan wax khaldan.

Gudniinku wuxuu dhibaato u gaysan karaa caafimaadka gabdhaha.
Gabdhuhu waxay macluumaad baddan ama caawimaad ka heli karaan halkan:
http://www.imma.de/einrichtungen/wuestenrose.html