ዓርከይ ከም ዝነገረትኒ፡ „መከላኸሊ ቀለቤት“ ተጠቐም ትብለኒ። እዚ ኣነ ኣይፈልጦን እዩ። እንታይ እዩ? ብኸመይ ከ ክጥቀመሉ ይኽእል?

እዚ መከላኸሊ ቀለቤት ልክዕ ከም ከኒና መከላኸሊ ጥንሲ እዩ።
እታ ቀለቤት ንኣካላትኪ ሆርሞን ትወስደሉ።
በዚ ኣገባብ ድማ ጥንሲ ንኸይመጽእ ይዕገት።
ሓኪም ማህጸንኪ ክትጽሕፈልኪ ትኽእል እያ።
በቲ ናይ ሓኪምኪ ወረቐት ጌርኪ ድማ ኣብ ፋርማሲ እቲ ቀለቤት ትገዝእዮ።

እታ መከላኸሊ ቀለቤት ኣብ ብልዕትኺ ተእትውያ።
ኣብ ብልዕትኺ ድማ ሰለስተ ሰሙን ዝኣክል ክትጸንሕ ኣለዋ።
ብድሕሪ እዚ ነታ ቀለቤት ካብ ብልዕትኺ ተውጽእያ።
ብድሕሪ እዚ ሸውዓተ መዓልቲ ተጸቢኺ ሓዲሽ መከላኸሊ ቀለቤት እንደገና ተእትዊ።
ብዝበለጸ ኣብ ካላንደርኪ መዘከሪ ግበርሉ።

ኣስተውዕሊ: እቶም ሆርሞን ዘይምቹእ ጎናዊ ሳዕቤናት ክህልዎም ይኽእል እዩ።
ኣብ ሓኪም ማህጸንኪ ኬድኪ ሓበሬታ ብዛዕብኡ ቅሰሚ።
እቲ መከላኸሊ ቀለቤት ብኸመይ ከተእትውዮ ትኽእሊ?
መጀመርያ ምጹእ ቦታ ድለዪ።
ብድሕሪኡ ኣብ ከተብሩኺ ትኽእሊ ኢኺ።
ወይ ድማ ሓንቲ እግርኺ ኣብቲ ናይ ባጮ ጫፍ ክትሰቕልዮ ትኽእሊ ኢኺ።
ብመጠዋጢት ኣጻብዕትኽን ዓባይ ዓባይቶኽን ጌርኪ ነታ ቀለቤት ጽቐጥያ።
ሕጂ ነታ መከላኸሊ ቀለቤት ኣብ ብልዕትኺ ክትደፍእያ ትኽእሊ።
እታ መከላኸሊ ቀለበት ኣብ ውሽጢ እንተ ዘይትስማዓኪ ኣላ ኣብ ቦትኣ ኣትያ ኣላ ማለት እዩ።

All my friends are on Lovoo. What is that?

Lovoo is a dating app.
A dating app is an app for meeting people and flirting.
You can meet other people via your smartphone.
You see a photo of the person and you can write to them.
There are many different dating apps.

You can find lots of friends on Lovoo.
Or you can start a relationship.
You can register on Lovoo free of charge.
But you must be 17 years old.
Attention: Some services on Lovoo cost money.

Some people use dating apps for other reasons.
They may want to trick you.
Or they may (only) want to have sex with you.
Sometimes they may also lie about their age.

If you want to meet up with someone:
Meet them in a place where there are other people.
Say what you want and what you don’t want.
Get help if anything is not ok.

I am 15 years old. I was pregnant and I terminated the pregnancy. The others at school say that I am a murderer, that I killed my child.

You didn’t want a child yet.
You decided to have an abortion.
That is your right.
An abortion is not murder.
In Germany there are rules about when you can get an abortion.
When is it permitted?
When is it not permitted?

Others may not understand you.
They may want to know why you did it.

You can say to them:
I don’t like what you’re saying.
What you’re saying is hurtful.

You can also explain why you did it.
Then they might understand you.

But you do not have to explain.